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The courage to change

I am ending a 4-year relationship with Medium

Dec 5, 2023

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The only person you should take advice from

No, it’s not anyone older and wiser

Jul 30, 2023

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Signs you have stepped into your ego, not your power

There’s a difference.

Jun 22, 2023

Signs you have stepped into your ego, not your power

Jun 22, 2023

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The New Age Fuckboy: He’s doing more than just fucking

Yes, you can have a Fuckboy you’ve never fucked. He’s also known as a pen pal, a timewaster, or an emotional vampire.

Jun 26, 2022

White text on black background reading “You can’t put a crown on a clown and expect a king”

Jun 26, 2022

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Avoidant Dilemma — A Poem

The outer voice of the inner conflict of the early stages with an Avoidant attachment style.

Nov 14, 2023

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Why cook for a man?

Not because I’m a woman. A poem

Aug 23, 2023

Aug 23, 2023

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Mindy Kaling and the Ozempic Rumors: Let’s Talk!

I’m not one to talk about people’s bodies anymore, but I am one to talk about people who talk about people’s bodies.

May 15, 2023

Mindy Kaling and the Ozempic Rumors: Let’s Talk!

May 15, 2023

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5 Things I learned from having guy friends

There’s no judgment, no psychoanalyzing — and also no accountability, or vulnerability.

Apr 6, 2023

5 Things I learned from having guy friends

Apr 6, 2023

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Modern Men Should Know This About Modern Women

We are constantly analyzing, assessing, evaluating, and processing to keep ourselves safe and it is exhausting.

Mar 31, 2023

Modern Men Should Know This About Modern Women

Mar 31, 2023

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The Goal of a First Date Isn’t to Get a Second One

Most of us want to be liked, even if we don’t like the person seated across from us. We like to “win”, even if we don’t care for the prize.

Feb 14, 2023

The Goal of a First Date Isn’t to Get a Second One

Feb 14, 2023